SBJ--you know you are preaching to the choir. I believe in my vows and that all things are possible with God. What do you mean appeasing?

It's been six months since BD for me and my guess I will be officially D in maybe March or April. I could slow the legal process down but I don't see that as getting me closer to reconciliation. For you? Only you know. My W really needs to go on her journey without me. Maybe she comes back. Maybe she doesn't.


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving