You are right, I am dealing with the fear of the unknown and what to expect. Definitely. But it is something about H's relationship with this particular OW that has me bothered and I can't figure it out. If he were with anyone else, I wouldn't care. In fact, I know he is messing around with a different OW (who is married) and if he ran off with her, I don't think I would be as bothered about it.
What I resent is his bouncing between her and us. I resent the attitude of, okay, I am done with her now, so I'll spend time with the "family." I would like to put a stop to that, but don't know how. Or maybe I can't and therefore shouldn't?
