Gord, just as you I told her that I did not want to D and that if she wanted it she would have to do the work. Now it is up to paperwork on my attorneys end and I am not rushing to get it done. I know it won't make a difference, but to appease her leaving doesn't sit well with me.

She has a fantasy that her life will be great without me as well...why do I care then, right? I guess because I took my vows seriously and feel that a husband and a wife should work things out...anything. It ticks me off that she is wanting everything rushed for her convenience. We are only 7 months post-BD and she is done. Pretty fast if you ask me.

Again, my God tells me that all things are possible for those who believe in him. That includes "all things". I can't mind read, but I would think that everyone that believes in God, should believe in that statement.


Me 49 W46
T25 M22
S22 D18 S13
W had EA Apr-Jul 2016
Dropped Bomb 7/9/16
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HER DIVORCE IS FINAL...8/18/17
Dropping the rope to SURVIVE & THRIVE!!!