She moved out, filed, but I'm still working Pt. 5

[Gordie]

I am in the same boat. I offer moral support but not sure I have helpful advice. My W knows I don't want D but that I won't stand in her way. Because I do all of our finances, putting the paperwork together was easy for me. I gave her everything for her to review and bring to her L the first week in January. W has dragged her feet but still tries to blame me for the fact we aren't D yet. We agree on most everything. She's frustrated that she has to talk to L and do paperwork. I have instructed my L to do nothing proactive and to only respond to requests so we are going at her speed. W sees M as an obstacle to her fantasy life, so for her D is a necessity.

Have you been dragging your feet? If so, why?