I actually have text messages from my W (after she told me about the PA) that tell me how much she loves me and how much she wants our marriage to work. Then in a few short weeks they tell a different story. I actually wanted to forward one of the long ones that basically said I was the one and all that other loving things you would want to hear after the news of a PA, but what is the point now.
I suppose it doesn't matter about how you communicated with her in the past, but more about how you communicate with her now is the key.
M: 37 W: 36 T: 16 M: 11 D2: 8,3 PA: 2015 WAW: 2016 W Filed: 2017 2/07/2017 W officially dating OM2