I spent quite a bit of time debating whether or not to share that with H. I never know what his reaction will be - will he sit down and talk with S or will he blow up? With his mood swings it could be either. I decided to keep it to myself because I don't want to subject S to that. Still don't know the right answer.
I wouldn't. It could backfire and him come back saying something crazy like you put the idea in his head or something. Just let sleeping dogs lie.
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And as I sit here writing this, I wonder if this is still the right forum for me to be in. Everyone here is actively trying to save their marriage and I think mine is past that point. I still hurt, but I think my path is different now.
I'd say its much less than you think. I'd be willing to bet that most of the posters here know its futile to even try. This place is great at helping others cope and move on - and that's the endpoint of it all.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
