Originally Posted By: Jeep74

Maybe just box them up and seal it very tight with tape. And just put it in storage. That way, its still there but you don't see it.


I still have my W's wedding dress. When we married she had it sealed and put in a box so if we ever had a daughter she might want to get married in it too. My W dropped it off at the house for my D and my D rolled her eyes and said she didn't want it. I wasn't going to get rid of it. It is my W's dress and I would never willingly destroy it. When I moved into my apartment my W helped me move some things out of the house the day before closing. She saw the wedding dress box and told me to get rid of it. I told her there is no way I was going to get rid of it. It's all on her. She looked at it for a few seconds and finally asked me if I would keep it for her. I told her I would and put it under the bed.

I'm mind reading, but I think in her mind if I got rid of the dress then it wasn't her doing it, it was me and it would make it easier for her to deal with it being gone.


M 55 W 52
MR 32 T 34+
D29
BD May 8, 2016 - She moved out
ILYBNILWY May 15 (Through email)
No EA/PA
August 23 - DB used against me in every way
Divorce July 18, 2017 - Life is getting better every day