Figuring it out - WAW with Affair

[Gordie]

KevinIn,

I think you need to work on grinding your expectations down to zero. This is very hard, but it's for you. When your expectations are more than zero, then her actions and words can hurt you. When they are at zero, then it won't bother you that:

1. She didn't open your card
2. She is antsy when you see her/interact with her
3. She didn't do anything more than say thanks when you complimented her

What were you expecting?