I think you handled things well and that was great that his mom looked you up and talked with you rather than letting that be a problem between you two.
Just curious as your H makes me think of D in a lot of ways.
Is his mom or his dad the one sort of the dominant personality in his family?
Are you ever on Yahoo anymore? I am still sometimes.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"