Needing some Guidance

[KCRoo]

Well I think it is all but over, not because she wants it to be, but because I want it to be.

I remember reading someone's post about spying on here, and man was I addicted. I had bought a flash drive, that is also a recording device. I had pretty much given up using it because I wasn't getting anything. I decided to try it one more time. Well I got something. It records for 16 hours. I started it Sunday night, when I went to bed around 10. I was thinking that I would catch my wife talking to people when I fell asleep.

There was nothing. I heard her get up, and go see her dad, and then she went to the dentist. I was about to delete it, 14.5 hours in, when she came in the house.

She was talking to her friend (the one having an ea on her husband, and recently asked for a divorce). WW told her that she was telling me that she was going to coffee with her, and had to be home around 7-730 (this was last night, which she was on time as I posted), but then she said that she was at om2's house.

She then proceed to tell me that how on Saturday night (she came home at 6 a.m. I didn't post because I needed time to process, she claims she fell asleep on her friends couch) he told her that if he knew she was going to stay out that late, om2 would have taken her to embassy suites instead of a motel 6.

I confronted her this morning. I asked her if she had been talking to om1, she said that he texted her last week, and she had a conversation with him yesterday to leave her alone.

What I heard was her tell her friend, that what, if we (me and ww) get divorced, and they (her and om1) don't talk for two months you think she is going to call him out of the blue and ask him out.

WW then proceeded to say that at least om2 talks to her.

(I deduced that her friend asked her about money) She said I know, and that money isn't everything to her. She then said that she makes more money than me. (Which is true for last year because I was working part time jobs while looking for a full time attorney job, which I now have, and have been at for almost a year).

She then tried to say that she thought we had a good weekend together. I asked her how, I explained that she wasn't there on Saturday, and that on Sunday she either had a friend over (different girlfriend) or was at her grandma's.

WW then said that she was going to use her one night out (Wednesday) and say that she was going out with her coworkers, but would meet up with him.

Of course she denied all of this. She asked me how I got this information. I told her that I heard her talking to her friend about it (not giving up the source of my information). She said she didn't see me. I told her what does it matter, she is going to go meet up with OM2 anyway on Wednesday. She was like no that is not true. I said I know it is.

I told her that we both have trust issues, and left...

She called me, I asked her what she wanted. She said nothing, so I hung up.

She called me back, she asked where the listening devices were. I said I don't know what you mean. She said the only way I could know about the conversation was with listening devices. I said now who has trust issues.

She swore up and down that OM2 was just a friend, and not like the situation with om1. I said it seems a lot like om1, you didn't tell me about him, I discovered you on a phone call at 2 a.m. with him, and you delete your texts with him. How is that any different.

She told me that she texted all of her friends that she is on lockdown, and is not going out. She asked me if I was happy. I said I cant answer that right now. She brought up Valentine's day, and that her friends had asked her what we were doing. She told me that it hurt her because I hadn't said anything about it. I brought up that she lies, and I don't trust her, and that hurts me.

She then said that she had cried all morning, and that she just hit a curb, and blew out her tire.

I did do one nice thing for her, I called her a tow truck to pick up her car.

She asked if I still wanted her to leave. I told her yes. She asked if we could talk about it tonight. I said we could. She then said that she had no where to go. I told her that her mom was out of town, she could go there, or her friend (the one she was talking to in the recording) could take her in.

She asked how I was so sure of everything if I didn't record, I told her that I have to act sure, because she tries to manipulate me.

She said what is it going to take. I told her to stop f'ing around on me. She said she wasn't. I said I have to get back to work. She said she would call me later. I hung up.

This is mostly a vent. I don't think I want to get back together anymore, I have proof (not admissible in court) that she stayed out with om2. That is enough to sour anyone to a relationship.