skm...I don't have any advice on the call for assistance or the apology. My situation is a bit different than yours. Only you know how the conversation will go, but I know that I regret the communication issues that my W and I have had over the last many years. I have resigned myself to saying what I feel I have to just so I will never hold anything back.

As for help with your dogs...they belonged to both of you, so he should want to help out, but he left them also. I would try and find a plan B for them.

Be your own Valentine today and remember how awesome you are. Happy Valentine!!!


Me 49 W46
T25 M22
S22 D18 S13
W had EA Apr-Jul 2016
Dropped Bomb 7/9/16
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HER DIVORCE IS FINAL...8/18/17
Dropping the rope to SURVIVE & THRIVE!!!