Sure. As long as you are doing them for you and remember that she is secondary for them. If she recognizes and decides to come back, then that's awesome. If she doesn't, then you'll still be in a better place. You just don't want to do things and place hope on them winning her back, because if she doesn't come back...
You are on the right track and seem to have your head on straight. Good on ya!
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
