Figuring it out - WAW with Affair

[KevinIn]

So its valentines day. I told her i was stopping by before work to day hi to the kids. Her wall was up once again.

I gave the kids valentines cards and gifts, and gave her a card that sigmply daid "happy Valentine's day". She didn't open it, and just put it on the counter. Im not sure if she even said thanks. Shes never been a "b!tchy" type of woman, but this was definitely like that.

After i left, i went back in the house to say she looked nice today (which she did) and she said thanks.

I then left.

I've stuck to the LRT and it seems to be pushing her away more and making her seem antey with me in all our interactions (even when im nice and not pushy).

I feel that im doing a great job at following thr Duvorce Busting principals (including Sandi's rules).

This is so frustrating. I'm feeling a combination of sadness, anger, hopelessness, and confusion all at once.