I'll jump on the band wagon here. It's ok to give advice, but she wanted to stand on her own two feet, then let her. Think this goes back to the codependency thing we've been talking about.
These mlcs wind me up when they want some thing they come to us for help,then when they got what they want through us back under the bus, Also I believe helping them is enabling opossite to what we should be doing, As long as the kids are OK I wouldent help my wife at all,I also believe making things tuff for them helps them thru the tunnel, like the saying some times you have to be cruel to be kind,I don't like making things hard for my w,I'm total opposite to that,but no way am I helping her with this madness,my kids know where I am if they need me,
Me 56 w52 M30 years 4x adult kids W dad died/11 W wanted d 03/12 In-house sep 03/12 D 2014 I pushed W Left on 02/16 I pushed Pa on 07/16 Nc after 07/16 W Cakeating 15to16 Me doormat 12to16 Limbo 12to16
