Cheesyt, this is awesome! You have so many people around you who love you that this should absolutely be where you are. You're an amazing person and this loving life is what you deserve!
I am sorry you've not been able to see your D though. I know that has to be especially tough. I'm not sure how to approach that aspect of this without approaching your W. what if you were to send her another package or even a text just saying hello? Just a thought.
Proud of you cheesyt. You are on a good path!
Me39 M11 : T13 D9 BD 5/31/16 In House S until 6/21/17 Divorced 10/5/18