WAS or what 9

[roist]

I am not sure I would say W is happy with status quo but she does appear less unhappy with it.

I have no plans for Valentine's day. We never made a big deal of it. We have our own dates.

What I am doing is too long to reply now. I may come back to it later. I am chipping away at it. But you can only connect with someone that is open to it. Cadet drilled that home two years ago.

I guess I am giving my W space and time.II am using that time to better myself and improve my R skills/knowledge. I am preparing myself for when I will need them.

Our situation may not have moved much but it would be wrong to think it was all identical the last 2.5 years. There were phases both for the R and especially for me. It was a rolkercoaster ride, albeit not the same one as many here experience.

My whole story is here if you want to know the details.

Thanks for checking in on me.