Yeah, that's what I'm trying to do. Just standing back, holding my hand open, waiting for the butterfly to land. I will not try to grasp at it or trap it. I may even at times lower my hand, in hopes that she will worry whether it will extend out to her again.
It's not an easy thing to do. But, in a sense, you just need to let the butterfly go. It will fly away and if it chooses to come back on its own, it will...if not, then there is your answer. The butterfly analogy is one of the best I've heard in a long, long time.
The thing is, you can't do things in hopes that she will wonder or make her way back to your road. She is on her own road that only has room for her. What you can do, is work on yourself and be the best Wsh you can be. For you. No one else. If she chooses to walk your road again, then great. If not, well, then you by then you will be standing on your own feet without wobbly knees. But this time is for you. Period.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
