Hi everyone,I'm wondering,my w seems to have gone thru the first 3 stagers,but no sign of the others,she is still in replay with om ,but It seems to be taking a long time for the other stagers to kick in,or is it possible they will not go thru the other stagers,it would be great if you cauld,help me with this,and to see if job ,Sandi,could give me some advice,
Hey Maly .... its hard to really plot the MLCrs course by the 'stages' .... they often do not follow them one by one .. and its also possible they come out of one, and then pop backwards. Often it is very possible they remain stuck in one for some time.
MLC takes time, there is no guarantee but I do think most do come out of it .... 'when' is the million dollar question.
According to your timeline yours entered about the same time mine did, outside of a 6 month touch and go mine has been in replay as far as I can tell for about 3 years ... Replay as I have learned is the most painful and longest of the stages.
Hi Cali,w dad died 2009/2010 ,I'm sure she went into mlc about 2011 that's when all the shouting and raging started ,started new job in 2015 and that's when I think she was in replay with coworkers but I only found out for sure in 2016 ,since 2011 she has been very cruel and heartless towards me,with small intervals of being nice like she was wen I met her,
Me 56 w52 M30 years 4x adult kids W dad died/11 W wanted d 03/12 In-house sep 03/12 D 2014 I pushed W Left on 02/16 I pushed Pa on 07/16 Nc after 07/16 W Cakeating 15to16 Me doormat 12to16 Limbo 12to16
