I do appreciate the different angle offered by Jelly & Zeus. As DB coaches like to say, YOU are the one on the "front lines" so only you know how best various advices offered apply to your situation.

I do hope it is the case that Jelly & Zeus's take on the situation is right. Maybe if you (LT) spent a couple of weeks totally focusing on:
a) really listening to your W;
b) try not to fix a single thing, don't be a fixer;
c) respect her every wish.

Maybe it's worth trying to see if that changes her anger & contempt for you? Or maybe you've already tried this....


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final