He just celebrated his 64th birthday. I don't think he'll ever get it and realize what he had and threw away. I think you are absolutely correct and will not face himself until he's ready to be put to rest. He's one of those that will never admit he is at fault for anything and the world owes him everything. It's a very sad way to live life.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
