Don, it's hard to know the answer. I know myself when I'm doing that online thing which will never be mentioned again on your thread (lol) I've had times where 8 or 10 women don't answer and I wonder what I'm doing wrong...and then 15 in a row will all answer and I can't keep up! So maybe it's just a matter of pushing through those lean times until things turn around. And as I've said before, it often has nothing to do with what you are doing or not doing...that's what makes people such a pain in the @ss lol. You're not pathetic!
