Same Sitch. New Approach. Motivated. Feeling Good.

[Chris73]

Thanks Gordie. I did ask her a few times over the past couple of weeks if she wanted me to go with her to the Dr and she's always said no. She would've said no even if we had a normal happy marriage. She's very stubborn and guards her emotions. I wrestled with the idea that I should just be aggressive and go with her, but I think that would do more harm than good. It wouldn't be respectful of her wishes.

I just went back a looked over my notes. It's only been 17 days since I decided to put the problems aside and start reconnecting. How could I expect that anything could change that quickly? I must be nuts!!

I'll search through txhubby's posts and see if I can find anything related to this.