I'm so sorry for you. I definitely wish I could take you out for a beer! And like others said, don't burn everything in your current state of mind. If not for yourself, keep it for the kids.
Did you stick to the script you outlined--that this was a joint decision? What did your W wind up saying? Did your kids just listen or did they ask questions? I'm really dreading my upcoming conversation and still don't know what we are going to say.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving