Hey, after a good period of time together, do you have a backslide? Your H seems to be preparing for one! Is it just me? Anybody else sensing that??? Don't ask if he needs time away from you. It comes across as needy. If he is pulling away, then do something for you. Don't let him get to you. (This is advice I need to take, as well!!!) I see you do this nonchalant, independant thing and then you flip out, cling and smother. Is he expecting the flip out? I could be really wrong, but I do see a pattern with you guys. After a really good interaction, then there is usually a backslide. Can you avoid that part of it and break the cycle? Easier said than done, eh?
Quote: I thought Monday went well, we aired a bunch of stuff and re-committed to BOTH making more effort, etc. So, what is his prob. NOW???
That is what makes me think he is waiting for the hammer to fall. Quit obsessing over him and his thoughts and concentrate on how not to fall into that pattern. Even you admitted you can DB!!! I am gonna hold you to that now! LOL.
So, good opportunity this weekend to relax and let the need for chaos pass! WOW him with your great DBing skills and make him wonder what alien they switched you with! Hee hee! Seriously, do relax and quit stressing over him. Try to make it a great weekend and let him un-stress (is that a word?) too. I hope your weekend is fantastic! Take care now. God bless. Debi
