Infidelity/WAH, my story pt 9

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I don't have a thread, may be one day.

I did a targeted exposure, it created a mess in their relationship and exposed the lies they were telling each other. I decided that enough was enough. Also I was fully ready to file for divorce when I did it, but I never used any foul language or spew. It made him realize in which mess he was and how ready I was to move on and fight for myself and my kids rights. It shook his fantasy land.

I think a lot of LBS are too scared of losing their WH or WW and keep playing nice without really detaching or installing boundaries. It just reinforces the WH/WW bad behavior. But that's only my personal opinion.