Well, Sat. turned out to be a pretty good night. We went to see another band and ate there and went home. H had some feelings about an interaction that we had and wanted to talk, but he said he didn't want it to last all night. I said, "Ok, how long would you like it to last?" He said 10 minutes. So, he asked for clarification, I clarified, he expressed feelings, I validated-all in less than 10 min! Then we had great . Woo-hoo

Sunday we spent most of the day apart, Monday we talked. He initiated it-I had made a comment a week or so about how/why I feel like I/we are stuck. I asked him for some clarification, and the talk was mostly beneficial. He admitted that he could be doing more for our R by putting more effort into it. I acknowledged his feelings and talked about changing. (yes, still) We both said that we are committed to the M. (but he needs to feel some things change in short order). I got a little defensive and tried to point out some baby steps that i thought i had made, but to him the end result is the same: Upset once every 7-10 days.

We ended up having more great . Tuesday we went bike riding with his friend and i thought he was acting somewhat distant. Maybe just not talkative? Not sure.

When I said good-bye this morn, he was pretty groggy so I asked him to call me today. It's almost 6 and he hasn't yet. I wanted to talk to him about a couple things-no, not start a fight, but just fill him in on a couple details about the week, etc.

I am feeling somewhat angry/disappointed, and not sure what to do with it right now. I am going to a dinner party right after work and am wondering if I should call him or what. I didn't have the chance to tell him that i wasn't coming home first. Guess he'll figure it out, huh?

bothered,
karen