You are the same as 20 years ago when all of this worked. life changes, stages in life change, there are different deal breakers, desires of women who are now 20 years older. Maybe someone who goes away on gigs every weekend isn't something an older woman is looking for in a partner now. Maybe she wants some who is around on weekends to spend time with her. I'm not saying you should change your lifestyle. But maybe there are just fewer women who that works for. Which is why you shouldn't have to change who you are, but you'll have to have more patience for the right one.
