So happy that you are doing great. I am much more patient too and have more empathy too. You are on the right track, having fun and not focusing only on him. For the remorse, don't be to impatient, it takes time (a few months), and it might not be through words but more through actions at first. I went through that phase also where I was waiting for him to express his remorse almost every day, I almost asked him the question but decided against it. Then I had my phase with resentment, big waves... now I am in a good place (not perfect but comfortable), and since I am not after him anymore or trying to push him to express his remorse, he is doing things around the house he never did before... He changed so much (for the better). From what I read, it takes about one to two years for them to express true remorse if they do. Have a nice week and Carpe Diem.
Me 52+ WH 57+ Married 20 + Piecing since 2016 (ready to give up...)
