Hi Karen - Great dbing - giving him space, acting as if. But so true that you can only take it so far. I think you are doing as well as can be expected under the circumstances.
Quote: He left for work and I asked if he would rather go out w/his friends tonight (nicely). He said "nope." Ok, so he's feeling distant but still wants to be with me. This is a good sign, no?
Good that he seems to want to spend time with you, but you may need to re-think about those pregnant pauses when you are out together.
Quote: I'm not very motivated to do housework this morn. like I usually do on Sat.
Enjoy the break! I know just how it feels to be tied to a schedule - hope you found something HOT for the anniversary.
And the reason your are doing this is because you believe the short term effort will give you long term, as in rest of life, with the man you love. Yes? Slowly