I can blame my W for making bad choices in men, I suppose. I guess I would if she exposed the kids to some guy she's just having a fling with. But if she chooses some dipshit for her next multi-year romance ... that's all a part of who she is now. Maybe I can blame her, but I shouldn't expect her to pull herself out of that.
HAHAHAHA - yes, the dipsh@t part is certainly what I am seeing. To me a man with self-confidence and security in himself would not be trying to spend so much time with a woman and her child while she is still married. It's what I would do. But he is weak or heart and mind, so...
Originally Posted By: Gordie
I ...but I guess there's nothing we can do about that (assuming they are not in danger), right? We can only fix our side of the street.
Very, very true.
More replay. More contact from her, as in increased from her. Happens every time I stop making an effort. Weekend texts - unheard of for a long time. Emails without much purpose. Hell, even a phone call today, which I did not take.
Just wanted to keep you all filled in as part of the story, got a mountain of grad work in front of me this week - most likely offline for a bit.
Hey - graduation paperwork arrived this weekend! 2.5 months and I am done. Gonna be so nice to spend unhindered time with my son. And with myself for that matter.
