Don

Dating isn't easy nor is it an easy option for many. For me I am simply not ready, maybe I never will be ready.

It's a risk, life is a risk, your precious heart needs protecting.

And it's ok. Truly it is.

Absolutely fine.

Clearly you have identified you are sending mixed messages to the ladies you want to date. Lack of congruence in your attitude and behaviour. Something is telling you that you aren't ready and you are self sabotaging.

I think so.

It's frustrating you and bah humbug! And that's ok too.

You are unsure as if there is a fix. There may not be a fix, it may just need to slowly resolve. Relax there is a reason and you will learn it as it unfolds.

V


Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW