I think LITB and Sotto are offering great veteran advice. Much better than my newbie advice. I think the main takeaway for me is the current dynamic isn't working so you have to try something different. I like the suggestions.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving
