Oh, and another final point. I think if you ask yourself these questions and bravely answer them from your highest self, you can't go too far wrong - not just in your present situation but in life generally.
Is this working for me?
What do I need to do to look after myself in this situation?
If you can honestly answer these and courageously act on them, that is the way. I can tell you that these two questions alone have made a big difference to my life...
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus