Oh, and one last thing - I found it really helpful to read about codependency. It helped me realise that hanging on to an unhealthy situation wasn't serving me well and I needed to do something to move myself to a better place. Have a look at Codependent No More if you haven't done so already...
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus