W forwarded me an email today where our auto insurance is about to renew. I texted her that we should consider cancelling it. She replied, "I can". This is the first communication we've had at all since 1/15. A few hours later she texted that she wants to come by the house tomorrow to get more of her stuff. Will be the first time we've seen each other in over a month. I'm very nervous. Will apply what I've read here -- be pleasant but not pushy, don't talk about the MR, validate, be positive and act as if life is going just fine without her. Anything else?