MLC? Maybe you can tell me...

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HI K

Seems like you have already gotten some great advice
Its a long road and as was already said there is nothing we could do or have done to stop it
The Mlcer changes be4 our eyes from a devoted dad to a Disney unavailable dad
Many of them follow a pattern, they rewrite history, dress younger, loose weight, spend a lot of money and many hang out with younger friends become neglectful of the kids
My XH got a motorcycle, dyed his hair and eyebrows, wore younger clothes
mine Lied about the OW until the end..he M her as far as I know they are still M
although he has confided to a mutual friend he wants out of the M
Yes they leave to find the happiness that they dont have with us
but what they dont realize is happiness is a choice and a behavior
no one else can make you happy or unhappy
My MLcer xh is miserable now..I got confirmation of that when He left a voice mail to me on my work phone a few months ago..He never found the rainbow
DB is for us
we become a solid rock for our kids
We grow change and become the people we want to be
and yes we find happiness again whether they return or not
I remember MY XH told me I wanted this also and I would meet someone I would be happier with
I didn't want my D and would have done anything to bring him back
but now I am grateful he has left
I have a great kind and available BF for many years and my kids are both doing well