"The problem for me is right now she is everything to me she could pretty much do as she likes and I will still accept her So I need to move to be more independent as at the moment i am very dependent on her being in my life for me to be happy"
I agree this is central - a problem and also an opportunity. So, independent of her - and on the basis that she may not change her mind - what life are you going to build for yourself. If you are happier within yourself and have better boundaries, you will naturally deal better with people in your life who are disrespectful etc.
So, her aside - I'm keen for you to think about some early goals just for you - to start building the kind of life you want going forwards...
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
