Oh man, LT. Something is really wrong. This doesn't read like a normal conversation. She has such contempt for you, yet won't articulate it or try to resolve it. She could resolve it by working on the problem or walk away. But she seems stuck. And renting a house so you can sell a house empty? I've never heard of that. That's loopy! And every "bid" you make to make a connection (to use Gottman's paradigm), she rejects with anger. She hates you but can't leave you. So weird!
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final