You already know how conservative I am.. my opinion is that there is too many options at once. If those ladies feel like an option, they will treat you as an option.. a relationship is time spent together, devotion, understanding and compromise. invest in one and only one. you will get to see the whole person. the good and the bad. if you admire the good and can live with the bad, you got a winner..
there is always BETTER in everything.. There is also worst. eventually, enough is good. Enough is appreciating what you have.
please, do not be too hard on me. I know some of you will send me 2x4s..
