You have her an ultimatum. Are you going to follow through? How?
Working that out. We talked when I got back in. I'll go into details later. Same old 'she'll pick a day and I'll have to take her phones and laptop'...
I may talk to L again and see how a legal sep would work while living in the same house, if at all possible under UK law. I also left a voicemail for a DB coach to call me back, guess I missed the office hours just.
I did tell W that I couldn't be with her if she was still with him, that I could work on being a better husband, but I needed my wife back first.
Anyway, I need my rest, D4 turns 5 tomorrow
-- Me: 47 WW: 35 SS: 17 D: 5 T: 7 yrs Engaged: 2 yrs OEA confirmed: August 17 2016 ongoing since April 2016. OEA continues (with occasional breaks) BD2 - W says will visit OM in Jan 18
