If she unblocked him, it seems like she hasn't closed that door and from her words is more concerned about the OM's welfare than yours. So why do you think she's ready to work on reconciling with you?
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving