Gordon, thanks.

1. I think so, but not sure for how long. I glanced at her phone today. She had unblocked the OM from Skype, but no conversations. He had hanged his status to 'missing my friend' so I expect he will start pursuing her soon.

2. We already have separate accounts. She is a SAhM so I try not to think of it as anything other than 'our' money. I just get ticked off now and again by our different spending habits when I am conscious of the bills and taxes. Hey ho, that's the way it goes.

3. He is a great kid. I just need to make sure I let him know this enough...

4. It's good that you can do that. I wish we were better at it.

5. Good advice, I will shop around.


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Me: 47 WW: 35
SS: 17 D: 5
T: 7 yrs Engaged: 2 yrs
OEA confirmed: August 17 2016 ongoing since April 2016.
OEA continues (with occasional breaks)
BD2 - W says will visit OM in Jan 18