No, seriously ... I won't throw it away. I plan on boxing up all of my mementos of the marriage and tape it shut real good. It happened to me. It's a part of who I am, and I have good will towards her.
And then what? I think I'd find myself on a night I don't have the kids being tempted to open it up, and where would that put me?
Maybe I'll give my ring to my D10 or S13. Not sure they'd want it, and not entirely sure they should have it. Seems like maybe a little passive aggressive to give it to them? Like I'm subtly asking them to pay homage to my Good Fight? They need to move on, too.
Still coming back to the River, although I do really like scotch, FG.
Me: 46 W: 44 Married: 17 Together 21 D13; S10 BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you) Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)