You mean counseling for alcohol or mc?

She said that she would do mc, and that we needed to get a list of counselors together, and decide on one together. Then start going.

She has not made any effort towards that though. So yesterday and today, I have called around, and compiled a list of mc's for us to pick from. I am going to talk to her about it this weekend.

I don't think leaving would be the best way to handle it, but at the same time, I know I don't want to live with "party girl" for a wife. She knows that she has been abusing alcohol too much, and says she wants to cut back. Part of me wonders if the drinking could be she is going through withdrawals from the om.

It is something I obviously have to think about, and will speak with my IC and eventual mc about.


Me:33, WW:30
BD:12/14/16, EA
no children
Still together