Well, my H claims to realize that he has destroyed my life and the girls' lives (his word). However, that fact doesn't have any power over the fact that he "needs to live his truth" (thanks, quack therapist for that phrase). I think he says the word but has yet to fully comprehend the meaning. Perhaps when there isn't a happy restructured family in place they start to see reality?

Apparently there is a scene in the move Couples Retreat where one of the characters is going on about "his truth". I'd laugh at the absurdity if it wasn't wreaking so much damage in our lives. I might have to rent it though.


Me : 42
Him : 43
M : 18, T : 19
D13, D11
4/16 1st BD (ILYB)
11/16 H wants s, moves out of br
1/17 H rents house & moves out
2/17 OW (he denies PA but EA last winter)
5/17 I filed for D 7/17 D Final