Yes. I couldn't stand living with her anymore and we can't afford two places. So for the sake of the kids we just swap in and out every week. It actually works out pretty good, as long as you like the place you are staying at on you off weeks which I do
Last I was doing the same thing during my stitch. I realized later that all I was doing was enabling her. She was cake eating. You need to be in the house. If she wants to separate she should be the one to do everything, let her leave the house, let her file divorce etc. You can't save a marriage if you're not there. Hang in there it gets better.
Yes, this ^^^. This is almost ver batim what I was going to follow up with. She's living the fantasy and you're completely enabling it. She gets family time when she wants it and fun time with OM when she wants it and you're going along with all of it. Why should she want to change anything?
