Hi Huddy, Glad to see you pop in. I thinks it's all part of the swirl going on in their head and perhaps some manipulation too.
I say that because I've experienced it myself with my stbx.
Very recently someone on this board made the comment about how they (the mlcers) transform themselves from the villain to the victim, just cycling the blame back. Very true statement that I've also experienced first hand. This is why we detach!
Hope you're well.
Me- 30's H- 40's T-10 M-5 I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15 D filed by H: September 16