Thanks Trish, The cotton candle is helping the wound.
I need some time to absorb this feedback from you two.
You are making some very good points. And showing me how it is from his perspective.
Sticking point for me right now is having something else be more important than sex. If the M is important, but there is no sex, what does that leave? How many ppl would stay with their spouses if they NEVER had sex and be happy? I'm not saying that it will happen. I'm sure, if I do give up bonking my head over and over in this cheeseless tunnel, that things would be better.
