Well with valentines day coming up my mind has got me thinking. Should i post a valentines thing up on facebook like all the other happy couples do, make my wife squirm a bit... Do i get her a card since she is still my wife..? Idk. Her change of address just came in the mail, little things like tt should pale in comparison to her sleeping and living with another man, but still bugs me. I still love the woman i married but this isnt her, she has gone missing, is she dead or still alive? I wont know until i see the fog lift.
What purpose would "making her squirm" do, other than make you look like a fool in her eyes? Sorry to put it that way, but there is no need to sugarcoat it. So here is the hammer - if she is sleeping and living with another man, DO NOT send her a card or even acknowledge her on this day. To her, that would seem like the stalkerish ex-boyfriend who won't leave her alone. You have the answers you seek in your statement.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
