Help!

[maly]

Job, thanks for your answer!

I've already read several books and I've just bought one on IMS.

Somebody in an earlier post told me my H's wording wasn' typical.

I wanted to add more about that...

At BD he told me that the fact I wasn't loving enough little by little detached him from me. He said he just didn't care whether I was loving or not right now.
He said he could never criticize my role as a mother and he also said I always put my kids or job first.
He , the following days, said he loved me as the kids' mom and that he could be my husband but not my boyfriend. That he could not be romantic with me. This is basically shown in our SL.

Is this more or less what MLC men say?
Is there any way in which I could approach the issues he brought up?

So far, I 've been more concerned about him and his needs trying to be more caring and loving. As to this, he acknowledges my changes and he said perhaps if I had always been like this, we wouldn't be in the present situation.
Am I on the right track?

Thanks for being close to me in this difficult time!

Hi,if he is in mlc theirs not much you can do,only look after yourself and be nice,mlcs are on a mission its all about them,you can't believe much of what they say,and they don't take any notice of what you say,in their eyes its all your fault your the evil slave master,best thing to do is let go,drop the rope,look after yourself,protect yourself,you can't stop them or change the way they are feeling,